Tag Archives: Secondary

Autonomy and Other Things

I am solo poly. I’ve always been very independent, and generally never fantasized a whole lot about marriage. When falling for guys, I have fantasized about going up the relationship escalator, though when not caught up in the amazingness of … Continue reading

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OkCupid

I recently got a nice message on OkCupid, so even though I’m not really looking, I replied, looked through his profile, and updated my profile to clarify that I’m poly, into Dr. Who and board games, and a couple other … Continue reading

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Labels

I’ve always loved labels. Ever since I was little, I loved to organize, and labeling was fun. It did upset me a bit, that though I was for the most part fully content with my past relationships, few if any … Continue reading

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Solid Secondary

I’ve flung myself into the online polyamory community, and have become a poly activist in the past couple months…but always felt kind of bad, because while I generally have great relationship communication, I let the communication in one of my … Continue reading

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