Monthly Archives: May 2013

Poly Means You Have A Fall Back/Breakups Suck

Many mono people think that this is true. I suppose in a way it is…you still have someone you can bring to the wedding as your date. But in reality, each relationship is unique and special. Each of my relationships is valuable … Continue reading

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I’ve noticed a lot of blogs lately talking about how poly people identifying as “queer” is wrong, and that they should not equate themselves with the LGBT community, since LGBT people have suffered so much more than poly people ever … Continue reading

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Book Club

I just joined a book club, and I have to say, it’s got to be one of the best book clubs around. My local Planned Parenthood hosts a book club, and we just finished reading Bonk: The Curious Coupling of … Continue reading

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Catch My Breath

From Kelly Clarkson “Catch My Breath” I don’t wanna hide all my love Just because I have two lovers Who love each other and me alike I’ve spent most of my life Riding waves, playing acrobat Secretly hiding the other … Continue reading

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I haven’t really felt compersion. Well, maybe, did it count when I was happy to sit in the ER waiting room for hours as my boyfriend was sitting at my metamour’s side? While I am jealous for time and occasionally at … Continue reading

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